how to handle a break up
PROCEED WITH CAUTION : RANT!!! If you've been cheated on , and decide to stay and work things out with the person , then turn around and cheat on him for some type of revenge or whatever the reason is, you ain't shit ! You just jeopardized your own blessing because you decided to how to handle a break up things yourself. Don't become the person who hurt you. Stop looking for people to feel empty voids - whether it's something missing in your relationship (hence the cheating ), or simply lookin...g for someone to hold you after a breakup - learn to hold your damn self. Stop being codependent. I know we're all different , but damn , after my breakup I'm so happy I remained myself , and wasn't tainted. I allowed myself to cry for months. I allowed myself to be sad. I kept the photos, text messages etc until I was ready to slowly but surely get rid of things . Never did I do anything out of character. Thank god for my sister inlaw , otherwise my friends weren't really around , they had their own stuff going on , and I learned that at end of the day , YOU have to take care of YOU. It's no one else's responsibility.